Start with loss. Lose everything. Then lose it all again.
Lose a good woman on a bad day. Find a better woman,
Then lose five friends chasing her. Learn to lose as if
Your life depended on it. Learn that your life depends on it.
Learn it like karate, like riding a bike. Learn to fall
Forever. Lose money, lose time, lose your natural mind.
Get left behind, then learn to leave others. Lose and
Lose again. Measure a father’s coffin against a cousin’s
Crashing T-cells. Kiss your sister through prison glass.
Know why your woman’s not answering her phone.
Lose sleep. Lose religion. Lose your wallet in El Segundo.
Open your window. Listen: the last slow notes
Of a Donny Hathaway song. A child crying. Listen:
A drunk man is cussing out the moon. He sounds like
Your dead uncle, who, before he left, lost a leg
To sugar. Shame. Learn what’s given can be taken;
What can be taken, will. This you can bet on without
Losing. Sure as nightfall and an empty bed. Lose
And lose again. Lose until it’s second nature. Losing
Farther, losing faster. Lean out your open window, listen:
The child is laughing now. No, it’s the drunk man again
In the street, losing his voice, suffering each invisible star.
Death & Loss
an expression designed to call something to mind without mentioning it explicitly; an indirect or passing reference
a figure of speech in which words repeat at the beginning of successive clauses, phrases, or sentences